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April 3

 Scott had a good weekend.

 Spent time in the shop with the boys. Tyler Changed some winter tires while Scott supervised 

We ate a gargantuas lasagna that Michelle brought over that her mom Doris made. The oxygen is allowing him to sit up longer periods and visit. The breakthrough pain meds are working well.  

This morning we got a call from west view in stony and they have a hospice bed for Scott tomorrow afternoon, which we will be taking. 


This afternoon Jeff is taking us to the Royal Alex hospital to get Scott’s abdomen drained and a pleurx tube put in to help with his breathing and we plan to stop and see dear friends Roy and Jackie West on our way home. They recently moved to an assisted living home , Terra Losa so will be nice to see them. 


Hopefully the road trip today goes smoothly . 


More mail for Scott came! You are all amazing . 


Please send any pictures you have of Scott to J.arthurs@gmail.com and I’ll find a way to share them all 




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