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April 5


 We made it to hospice this afternoon.  A hard day for everyone, but grateful that Scott is going to be so comfortable and we can all just be with him as family.


He was tired today after his PleurX tube was put in yesterday, as it was a very long day for him at the Royal Alex hospital to have that done.


They drained his chest again, and have left the tube in for future if needed.  Dad felt much better after it was drained.


Monday , On the way home from the Royal Alex,  Janet, Scott and Jeff stopped in to see their good friends Roy and Jackie.


They had a great visit and were glad that they could see them one last time.


Scott is in WestView hospice in stony plain. 

We have to wait about 24 hrs for the covid results to come back, but after that there is unlimited visitors allowed. Even Burt the dog can come visit his Poppa. 


If you’d like to come visit , it is best to plan that in the next week or so while Scott is comfortable and able to visit. 


The cancer is quite advanced and he is declining swiftly. 

Comments

  1. ErinApril 5, 2022 at 7:46 PM

    Sending love, peace and hugs from Brett and Erin Cameron.

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  2. Richard and TwilaApril 5, 2022 at 8:13 PM

    Warm hugs to all of you. You are never far in our thoughts.

    Richard and Twila

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  3. UnknownApril 5, 2022 at 9:19 PM

    Thinking about you all,and sending you love.

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  4. NolaApril 5, 2022 at 9:32 PM

    How do I add photos, Joanne?

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  5. AlexanderApril 5, 2022 at 11:57 PM

    Stay strong, Scott! I will pray for you. Alexander Prokofiev.

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  6. Douglas BuhlerApril 6, 2022 at 8:22 AM

    Sending love and prayers to my Uncle Scott and the family. Thanks for the wonderful and meaningful visit we had together ❤. Big hugs and love always from Douglas and Benyapa

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